UPDATED: There are new things added to the project!
Warning: Do NOT join if you're a guy!
ARE YOU A GIRL???!!!
(If not, please leave)
THEN JOIN THIS STUDIO!!!!!
This studio is organized into all kinds of sections, so, scroll down, and if you find anything interesting, read it and see if you can relate!!!!!!
NOTICE: The text is too long, so the rest of the sections will be put into projects that I just added to the studio!
BFF: If you have a BFF, you're lucky, because some people don't (for example, me *crying*). If you are having trouble with your BFF, (for example, arguing, putting each other down, etc.), you should talk to her. You should tell her what's going on and tell her that you still really want to be BFFs with her. She will DEFINITELY forgive you, just don't yell at her.
Fake friends: Let's be honest, every girl has AT LEAST one fake friend. (If that isn't true, I need your autograph.) A fake friend can always fool you into thinking they are a true friend, but then use you or hurt you or put you down. (They suck). The best thing to do is to stop hanging out with them if they show signs of meanness.
True friends: Everybody says that opposites attract. Sometimes it is true, sometimes it is not. No matter what, a true friend is someone who likes you for what you are. They don't try to fix you, or tell you what's cool or not cool. They just absolutely ADORE you. They don't talk behind your back, but instead address issues that are affecting them right to you in a very nice way. If you run into a true friend, cherish her for LIFE.
Crushes: Lots of girls have crushes. Is there a guy you really like? Sometimes it is clear if they like you back, sometimes there are mixed signals. If you are positively sure that your crush likes you back, you should either leave him a note or talk to him face to face. It'll be cute! If your crush doesn't like you back, don't despair! Maybe he is just not ready! If he doesn't like you back, it does not mean you have to change who you really are!!!!! Be yourself! If you don't have a crush, that's totally fine. You'll probably get one later, OR all the boys you know are complete ANIMALS. (my case)
Guy friends: Sometimes you just have friends who are boys, but not boyfriends. Sometimes people can make fun of you, but if YOU know that you are just friends, you are fine! Don't let others get in the way of your friendships! In some very unfortunate cases, your guy friend might have a (massive) crush on you. Those cases are VERY AWKWARD when you don't like him back. In this case, tell him how you feel and ask if you can still be friends.
Boyfriends: Do you have a boyfriend? If you do, awesome. Skip this section. This section is for people who don't have boyfriends. If you are 11+ and looking for a boyfriend, sweet. Make sure you find a guy who will care about you, and not hurt you. If your friends or family are pressuring you about getting a boyfriend, think if you really want one. If you don't, talk to your friends and family and say that YOU will get a boyfriend when the time is right for YOU. Follow your heart, especially when it comes to boys.
Kissing: Already had a first kiss? Cute. Skip this section. This section is for people who haven't had their first kiss. If you are nervous about your first kiss, don't be. It will come in its own time, hopefully with somebody you actually like. (AKA not playing a game of spin-the-bottle.) Also, if that day comes, don't concentrate on what to do, just let your heart (or the boy) lead the way.
Jealousy: If you like a boy, you may be jealous of girls that he likes or girls that like him. If he likes another girl, don't be sad or desperate. Maybe later he will come to really like you. If you know another girl likes him, you still TOTALLY have a chance. Just be yourself and try to get him to notice you.
If you are having mood swings ALL THE TIME, there is nothing, NOTHING to worry about. Mood swings are a reaction from maturing. They usually happen from ages 9-16. For example, you are happy one minute, then crying into your pillow the next. This is TOTALLY NATURAL. It is nothing to worry about. Things that could help is doing something to take your mind off of it. For example, doing a sport, playing music, singing, drawing, or any other hobbies you have will really help. I would also recommend meditating. (If you need resources for meditation guides, comment, and I will help you.) If the mood swings get very bad, you can try taking a relax pill or talking to a therapist.