The title is a lie. Sort of... Basically you can talk to me, @sky_paw, about why I'm an idiot for leaving, etc. even though nobody knows who I am. For example, I got several comments saying approximately this: "I have no idea who you are but feel better (I don't really care tbh)"
So yeah no doubt I'm a forgotten scratcher.
I have no friends anymore also, because THEY ALL QUIT. RIGHT AFTER I STARTED TO FEEL BETTER.